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Positions and safety guide

Real photos when the team uploads them, otherwise a clearer diagram: man and woman, FFM, MMF, Swinger and groups. Each position includes how-to notes and the condom rule.

Fixed rule: a new condom for every new partner. Never go from anal to vaginal with the same condom.

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1. Partner Swap

This term describes a change of pairing among four adults arranged as two couples, not one fixed body pose. The participants typically begin as two clear couples and then change seating or reclining positions so members of different couples become adjacent. The swap can be organized as a square, two facing rows, or two parallel pairs.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

2. Couples Swap

This term describes a change of pairing among four adults arranged as two couples, not one fixed body pose. The participants typically begin as two clear couples and then change seating or reclining positions so members of different couples become adjacent. The swap can be organized as a square, two facing rows, or two parallel pairs.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

3. Full Swap

Full Swap is an interaction format for four adults arranged as two couples in which the primary pairings are exchanged by agreement. Visually, the four can begin as two parallel couples and then change places so each person is next to a partner from the other couple. There is no single mandatory geometry, so it is best treated on a website as a swap format containing several sub-positions.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

4. Soft Swap

This label describes an interaction format for four adults arranged as two couples rather than one fixed body pose. Each couple stays close to the primary partner while allowing agreed interaction with the other couple within narrower boundaries; the four can begin in a square or two facing rows and adjust proximity gradually. The name organizes who interacts with whom rather than prescribing one body angle.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

5. Same-Room Swap

This is a couples arrangement rather than a single pose: four adults arranged as two couples remain in the same space throughout, usually on a large bed or two adjacent areas, with everyone visible to one another. Each pair may use its own position and later transition into a four-person circle or facing rows. The defining feature is the shared room and timing.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

6. Four-Way

This is a label used by some position guides and does not always have one universal definition. In this library it represents a close formation involving four adults arranged as two couples, arranged across more than one angle or height so each participant remains connected to the group without crowding. The setup can begin seated or reclining, then adjust the center person and body directions to match the associated illustration.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

7. Foursome

This is a label used by some position guides and does not always have one universal definition. In this library it represents a close formation involving four adults arranged as two couples, arranged across more than one angle or height so each participant remains connected to the group without crowding. The setup can begin seated or reclining, then adjust the center person and body directions to match the associated illustration.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

8. Couples Foursome

This is a label used by some position guides and does not always have one universal definition. In this library it represents a close formation involving four adults arranged as two couples, arranged across more than one angle or height so each participant remains connected to the group without crowding. The setup can begin seated or reclining, then adjust the center person and body directions to match the associated illustration.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

9. Four-Way 69

The arrangement alternates participants head-to-foot so each person can face the lower-body end of another participant at the same time. In three-, four-, or multi-person versions, the two-person 69 concept becomes a chain or circle and may use different height levels to prevent heads and shoulders from crowding. The number in the name identifies the participant count or a commonly used online variation.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

10. 469 Position

The arrangement alternates participants head-to-foot so each person can face the lower-body end of another participant at the same time. In three-, four-, or multi-person versions, the two-person 69 concept becomes a chain or circle and may use different height levels to prevent heads and shoulders from crowding. The number in the name identifies the participant count or a commonly used online variation.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

11. Foursome Daisy Chain

Participants arrange in a curved chain or partial circle so each person’s head points toward the lower-body end of the next person, repeating around the sequence. The layout may be used simply as an interlinked chain or for mutual intimate contact depending on the site context. As more people are added, the circle becomes more pronounced and spacing becomes more important.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

12. Four-Person Daisy Chain

Participants arrange in a curved chain or partial circle so each person’s head points toward the lower-body end of the next person, repeating around the sequence. The layout may be used simply as an interlinked chain or for mutual intimate contact depending on the site context. As more people are added, the circle becomes more pronounced and spacing becomes more important.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

13. Couples Daisy Chain

Participants arrange in a curved chain or partial circle so each person’s head points toward the lower-body end of the next person, repeating around the sequence. The layout may be used simply as an interlinked chain or for mutual intimate contact depending on the site context. As more people are added, the circle becomes more pronounced and spacing becomes more important.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

14. Four-Person Circle

Participants sit or recline in a circle, with bodies facing the center or the next person in sequence. The shape provides clear group visibility and relatively even spacing, and position changes are easy to organize by rotating in one direction around the circle.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

15. Couples Circle

Participants sit or recline in a circle, with bodies facing the center or the next person in sequence. The shape provides clear group visibility and relatively even spacing, and position changes are easy to organize by rotating in one direction around the circle.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

16. Four-Person Spoon

Four adults arranged as two couples lie on the same side facing the same direction in a sequential row, with each person close to the back of the person ahead. In three- or four-person versions, a center person can be designated and the order rotated later. Slightly bent knees and head pillows make the line more stable.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

17. Quadruple Spoon

Four adults arranged as two couples lie on the same side facing the same direction in a sequential row, with each person close to the back of the person ahead. In three- or four-person versions, a center person can be designated and the order rotated later. Slightly bent knees and head pillows make the line more stable.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

18. Double Couple Spoon

Four adults arranged as two couples lie on the same side facing the same direction in a sequential row, with each person close to the back of the person ahead. In three- or four-person versions, a center person can be designated and the order rotated later. Slightly bent knees and head pillows make the line more stable.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

19. Parallel Couples

The group is divided into two parallel pairs or units performing the same base arrangement side by side. Each pair keeps its own space, with a small aisle or gap to prevent arms and legs from overlapping. The pairs may face the same direction or opposite directions to create more room.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

20. Facing Couples

Participants face inward toward one another, either as two opposing couples or in a small arc or triangle depending on group size. Upper bodies remain open toward the center, making eye contact easy and allowing adjacent partners to change without major repositioning.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

21. Couples Face-to-Face

Participants face inward toward one another, either as two opposing couples or in a small arc or triangle depending on group size. Upper bodies remain open toward the center, making eye contact easy and allowing adjacent partners to change without major repositioning.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

22. Double Missionary

The group is divided into two parallel pairs or units performing the same base arrangement side by side. Each pair keeps its own space, with a small aisle or gap to prevent arms and legs from overlapping. The pairs may face the same direction or opposite directions to create more room.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

23. Parallel Missionary

The group is divided into two parallel pairs or units performing the same base arrangement side by side. Each pair keeps its own space, with a small aisle or gap to prevent arms and legs from overlapping. The pairs may face the same direction or opposite directions to create more room.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

24. Double Cowgirl

The group is divided into two parallel pairs or units performing the same base arrangement side by side. Each pair keeps its own space, with a small aisle or gap to prevent arms and legs from overlapping. The pairs may face the same direction or opposite directions to create more room.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

25. Double Doggy

The group is divided into two parallel pairs or units performing the same base arrangement side by side. Each pair keeps its own space, with a small aisle or gap to prevent arms and legs from overlapping. The pairs may face the same direction or opposite directions to create more room.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

26. Parallel Doggy Style

The group is divided into two parallel pairs or units performing the same base arrangement side by side. Each pair keeps its own space, with a small aisle or gap to prevent arms and legs from overlapping. The pairs may face the same direction or opposite directions to create more room.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

27. Criss-Cross Couples

The two couples occupy diagonal axes that cross near the center of the bed instead of forming one row. The crossed layout creates extra room around heads and shoulders and lets each pair keep an independent orientation while the four still read as one formation.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

28. Crossed Couples

The two couples occupy diagonal axes that cross near the center of the bed instead of forming one row. The crossed layout creates extra room around heads and shoulders and lets each pair keep an independent orientation while the four still read as one formation.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

29. Couples Square

Four participants occupy the sides or corners of a square with bodies angled toward the center. The geometry gives each person clear space and keeps everyone adjacent to two others, making it a useful organized starting point before moving into pairs or other formations.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

30. Four-Person Square

Four participants occupy the sides or corners of a square with bodies angled toward the center. The geometry gives each person clear space and keeps everyone adjacent to two others, making it a useful organized starting point before moving into pairs or other formations.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

31. Couples Sandwich

One person is positioned between two others, with a partner in front and another behind or tightly to the sides, creating the layered look that gives the Sandwich its name. In the general version, body height changes while the center person remains the anchor. Weight is best distributed through the bed or couch rather than pressing both outer bodies directly onto the middle person.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

32. Double Sandwich

One person is positioned between two others, with a partner in front and another behind or tightly to the sides, creating the layered look that gives the Sandwich its name. In the general version, body height changes while the center person remains the anchor. Weight is best distributed through the bed or couch rather than pressing both outer bodies directly onto the middle person.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

33. Four-Person Star

Participants radiate outward from a shared center like the points of a star; depending on the variation, heads or feet may be closer to the center. The formation works well on a large bed or floor because limbs spread into different directions rather than crowding onto one line.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

34. Foursome Star

Participants radiate outward from a shared center like the points of a star; depending on the variation, heads or feet may be closer to the center. The formation works well on a large bed or floor because limbs spread into different directions rather than crowding onto one line.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

35. Rotating Couples

This is less a single pose than a rotation system: participants begin in a clear formation and periodically move to the next position or change who occupies the center. Using one rotation direction prevents confusion while the bed or circle remains the reference frame.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

36. Couples Rotation

This is less a single pose than a rotation system: participants begin in a clear formation and periodically move to the next position or change who occupies the center. Using one rotation direction prevents confusion while the bed or circle remains the reference frame.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

37. Couch Foursome

The arrangement is seated, usually on a couch or bed edge, so each participant has back support or a stable anchor point. One or two people can occupy the center while the others take the sides, and seats can rotate later. Sitting reduces balance demands compared with standing configurations.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

38. Bed Foursome

This is a label used by some position guides and does not always have one universal definition. In this library it represents a close formation involving four adults arranged as two couples, arranged across more than one angle or height so each participant remains connected to the group without crowding. The setup can begin seated or reclining, then adjust the center person and body directions to match the associated illustration.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

39. Standing Foursome

The formation is performed with most participants standing, arranged in a line, semicircle, or around a central person. Because weight is carried through the feet, a wall or stable furniture can provide support, and enough floor space should remain clear for position changes.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.

40. Human Tower

The formation uses vertical or sloped levels, with some participants forming a stable base and others positioned higher or behind them to create a tower-like shape. Body weight should be supported by the bed, floor, or stable furniture rather than by one person. Keeping the layers low makes entry, movement, and exit easier.

Agree rules before you meet. Any new pairing needs a new condom. Couples do not share condoms.